To 'live a better life' there are a thousand possible ways. French Psychologies Magazine presented 10 strong ideas in its October issue which I would like to share with you, one a day. Please feel free to comment.
Idea 9 -Sexuality is invented outside of the norms
Starting from the person one is and the person one has met, far away from the norms of obligatory 'enjoyment', sexuality is a terrain for self expression, open to the 'ressenti*' and respect of the other.
"When one fixes oneself a goal in matters of sexuality, one risks strongly to pass by the pleasure" - Gérard Leleu, sexologist
* «ressenti»: literally, re-senti, re-felt. [The English word ‘resentment’, like the French ressentiment, is much more limited than ressenti, as it only describes the very particular feeling of being against].